We’re Back!
Wish I had enough time to recap the past 6 months but unfortunately I don't. So much has happened and is happening including a new addition joining our family in November! Her name is Aliza! We were blessed with one beautiful baby boy so tried for another and sure enough it was just as easy the second time as it was the first time! No complaints here. Certainly brings insight into our family planning in the future
I'm nearly 22 weeks along and this pregnancy seems to be going smoothly. Only difference with this pregnancy is I hate peanut butter and love scrambled eggs! With Aidan it was the complete opposite. Oh, and while I still LOVE spicy foods I'm finding that I much prefer any baked chocolate-y goodies with this little one. Need to train Airan to stop buying me those foods despite my pestering. Really not good for the jiggles.
Mr. Aidan is a officially a toddler :-/ Everyone know's that it is naturally the next milestone in any tykes life but fully understanding that is a different story. I've been going through photos of him and find it astonishing how quickly they grow up. It is never a reality until it happens to you. Then you gain a new appreciation for what others have tried to tell you. He certainly is a good boy though and has quite the personality. He's walking every where sometimes running, doing some sign language (asks for milk/juice and signs dog), and has a profound love for books. We have a bookshelf with quite the collection of books for him to read and despite my constant efforts to keep an orderly looking living room 5 minutes later books are strewed all over with him sitting in the middle flipping the pages of various books. He's quite the little man in the making.
Also, our pet community gained a new member. We have a 12 weeks old Black Labrador/Blue Heeler mix puppy named, Shelby. She has been nothing but AWESOME! Of course there are the troubles that come with all puppies but that is to be expected. We had her just a few days and she'd already learned a few tricks. She's quite obedient for her young age too. Just need to conquer the nipping; haven't figured that one out yet but in time I'm sure we will find the answer. All in all we have a very cuddly dog that believes she the size of a chihuahua!
Everything else on the home front seems to be going quite well. Everyday is a new adventure
Especially, with my pregnancy hormones! Sorry, this hasn't been the most whimsical post... but what do you expect? I haven't posted anything in 6+ months, have to start somewhere!
Stay tuned!
Say it aint so!
Can you believe it? I finally get to update the blog! I was trying to update last night, unfortunately, the internet was determined to cut out every 30 seconds preventing me from updating this highly neglected site! Excuses, excuses... I hear it now! Honestly, it was just so irritating I gave up!
Well, what has been going on in our world??? Little Aidan is growing like a weed! This boy is already over 17lbs, he rolled over once and refuses to do it again, he laughs at everything ( and it is the cutest smile ever!) and just has the best personality. Although, he has developed some not so fun habits.... Airan told me that every time I leave Aidan starts crying and wont stop until I come back. I thought he was crazy and maybe embellishing a tad bit. So, I decided to test it out. I told Aidan bye and that Mommy would be back soon, opened and shut the door and waited by the door..... And then it began. Aidan started wailing! I think it is kind of early to be developing separation anxiety but then again it is probably he knows I feed him and his milk supply just left sending him into panic mode. Aidan doesn't miss his mommy, haha, he misses his milk!
Aidan is truly my world. Everyday I thank the heaven above for giving me such a beautiful gift. I mean that too. He doesn't keep me up at night he isn't as fussy as other babies I have met, and he is always making his daddy and me smile from ear to ear. He is just wonderful! I cant wait to have two more hehe! Airan said the only way we will have two more is if I have twins next time.... So you know what that means? On Thanksgiving day who ever gets the wish bone needs to wish for twins, at Christmas ask Santa for twins, on your birthday ask for twins when you blow out your candles. Or you could just ask for an accident ha ha guessing that would work too! Goodness, I know Airan is going to give me grief over this one! I mean it though, I LOVE being a mom. It has its challenges but it is completely worth it. I simply just love sharing all of these splendid moments together and watching Airan do what he does best, make his son and wife smile
Onto other subjects...
Fugly Banzuke had another visit to the vet! Last time she had a huge chunk of skin missing from her neck and this time she somehow managed to scrape a big chunk out of the bottom of her neck. With all of the fur in the way I couldn't get a clear looksy so I assumed it was the same thing as before, but the vet disagreed. So... He gave her a couple shots, an antibiotic ointment and sent us on our way. She is just fine now. Wish I would have just shaved her neck to see what it was. Would have saved us some money! Hind site is 20/20 and I know next time what I will do. BUT Fugly does go to a wonderful vet and no matter what the cost they take extremely good care of our kitty and that is what really matters to us.
This is where I can use your help. I am saving for a sewing machine but not too familiar with what kind to get. Any suggestions? I have all of these plans in my mind to make quilts and make covers for my throw pillows and make my own curtains... etc etc etc. You get my point. Just scared to get the wrong one. This is an investment, so this has to be well thought out. I love changing things up, and I'm getting more comfortable with decorating which can be quite costly (Airan doesn't like that part). Also, I always get an idea in my head of exactly how I want something to look, but can't ever find it at the store. Owning a sewing machine will solve my problems! Halloween really made it sink in how much I needed one. I didn't like how distasteful all of the costumes were and how it was lacking so much material! Next year I want to dress Aidan up as Yoda. Retail that can be expensive but if I sew it myself it can be very affordable!
Alrighty, Mr. Chunk is getting hungry better get going.
More to come! I pinky promise!
Updates
As of today I am officially a stay at home mom. I'm no longer an employee of CHI
Although there were a few clinics I despised working at I did really like my job. I'm sure no one would have gather that from all of my complaining over the last few months but it's true my job was a blessing. Met so many incredible people that helped me appreciate the Pacific NW a lot more than I had. I am still smiling though. Airan and I both firmly agree that the best person to take care of our children is me. No childcare program is going to be able to care for him like his Mama can! PLUS if I were to send him to a daycare I would be working to pay someone else to take care of him... that does not make sense. Infant child care will run you between 1200-1400 a month! Staying home with my baby is the right choice for me
Don't let me fool you. Staying at home is going to be more challenging than one would think. I start school on the 6th of September and I am going to be quite busy. Was really hoping to transfer to one of the community colleges so that I could go to a campus for some of my classes. Unfortunately, I missed the enrollment date with all the excitement going on. After this semester I am transferring from phoenix to a cheaper college. One that doesn't consume ALL of my GI bill. It will be good for me too. Staying home is great but I'm a socialite, I am going to need to get out of the house even if it's just for class.
OKAY!! G-Ma is going to like this part. I promise you will have another G-Baby. Not today of course, but as soon as we know what we are going to be doing in the next few years we will start planning for another addition to the family. It is true you forget what the pain feels like. I tried so hard to remember but for the life of me I can't! If we stay in WA then the addition planning may start sooner than expected. I wont divuldge too much information want to leave room for surprises later down the road. MIL has messed with my head though. Had it all figured out before she spoke with me. Two kids seemed like a perfect number...BUT I think I was wrong. Of course Airan is not on board with this and is probably going to make a post after my post about how much he doesn't want more than two, but I am just not so sure anymore. Who knows right now. There is still plenty of time for persuasion though!
AIRAN is the proudest dad. He adores our son and is having so much fun being a daddy. I am so blessed to have a husband who cares so much about being involved with our children. He is already talking about coaching peewee soccer and all the sports they will play together. He even said if Aidan wanted to take dance classes he wouldn't stop him. I know he isn't exactly fond of that idea but he is still ok with it! I married the perfect man!
--------Aidan is going to be baptized this December in Springfield, NE at MIL and FIL's church. Our family may move around all over the place but I know that they will always be there. This can be a place that Aidan can call home (hopefully we move there one day) and make memories.
Flickr Photostream
As promised through my tweet, I have added a Flickr widget to the site linked to our photostream. I am debating on if we still need the Picasa stream or if the other two will be enough. I guess we will have to just see which sites the wife and I update the most to see which ones we will keep.
What I’ve learned so far….
There are quite a few things I have learned over the past couple weeks that I had never thought of before...
1. Just because I finally get out of bed at 10 a.m. DOES not mean I slept in... It means that after going to sleep at midnight I woke at 1:30 and stayed up until 3 followed by another 6 a.m. wake up and going back to sleep at 7:30. Basically, I take sleep whenever I can. I am tired!
2. Doing my hair is no longer a priority. ( It has been extremely hot here in the Puget Sound, 90's with no a.c.) I am so thankful that I can dry it and throw it in a pony tail. By the time I get my hair dry Mommy duty calls.
3. Suddenly I have all of these panic disorders and think of worst case scenarios of unrealistic events. LOL of course they are all things I can laugh about later but at the time its terrifying! It is amazing how scary simple tasks can be. I was holding Aidan and I did NOT want to walk down the stairs with him... All I could think of was if I tripped or fell and dropped him. Wasn't happening I couldn't do it, fortunately Airan was there to take over.
4. If you are a control freak, you learn to let go. That not everything is in your control. Including being thrown up on repeatedly. Even that doesn't seem so bad either after a while. I've really learned to just let the small things go. My life can longer revolve around me but instead that handsome little man sitting in the swing.
Mainly, I have learned that sitting at home with my incredible husband and amazing son doing absolutely nothing except goofing around is the best time I have ever had. The past couple of days we have just hung out at the house watching t.v. playing with the DROIDS!!! and laughing at all the funny faces little Aidan makes. I used to hate sitting at home and doing "nothing" but it all seems quite favorable now. I love just being around my family and not worrying about everything else.
So, maybe, these aren't things I have learned but instead ways that my little Aidan has better changed me.
Unfortunately, our family left last Friday. It was so nice having them around. I know that MIL and FIL enjoyed their time with their 1st g-baby. REALLY hope that we get to move closer to the family one day. It is extremely important to me that Aidan grows up around family and experience the warmth and love that comes from that. Also, got to meet Airan's grandparents and cousins who live in California. Was an AWESOME time! I love meeting new people. < lol well usually I like to meet new people. Learned a whole lot and was also reminded that when I was growing up I somehow missed out on a lot of good food!
Plenty of new pics on flickr make sure you look at them!!!
Time to go make some beer bread!! This will be my first time making it, so look for pictures and a post on how it turns out. Trying to do a lot of new things now that I have the time to try. Why not right?!
lots of new stuff
So the wifes new phone finally works and we are both finally really enjoying them. So much that we have been updating the site like crazy. Just not through blog posts. We have been using twitter for everything. Hence the twitter widgets on the side. We will be adding a lot of new pictures so look for that soon and I am sure that as soon as she sees this post she will be making one as well. Till the new photos...
From the new phone
The wife and I just picked up our new phones from car toys and we are super excited. Well I should clarify a little. I am super excited and she is still waiting for hers to be activated and I am sitting here and playing with mine.
UPDATE
So we called Verizon after waiting for a couple of hours to see if she would be able to get hers activated and found out that it appears that her phone was not even added to the account when we set it all up. So it's back to Car Toys tomorrow so that we can get that taken care of for her. Other than that we are both still super excited about the new phones *smirk*
I Love You Like A Sandwich
Thought I would share a rather funny story with you...
Last night I got out of bed to get a glass of water and left lil Aidan with Airan. When I came back to bed I found the whole family passed out in bed and decided to take some pictures.
This picture was taken right before I put him in his sleep sack. He just passed out on my lap he is so cute! I know this is going to be very dangerous one day.
And this is what everyone looked like when I got back..... Apparently, I have been doing things all wrong. They certainly have it figured out.
NOW, the funny story...
I climbed in bed and placed Aidan in his bassinet and turned to Airan and told him I loved him... He then smiled and replied, " I love you like a sandwich."
A confused look crept upon my face and asked him what he was talking about and he simply repeated again, " I love you like a sandwich."
Realizing that this is just one of his many sleep talking episodes I began to play along and asked, "With BACON!"
Airan confused asked, "What does bacon have to do with giving birth?"
Me- "What does a sandwich have to do with giving birth?"
Airan- "Like Aidan, he's like a sandwich"
I at this point was desperately trying to hold back laughter and simply told him that I too loved him like a sandwich.
A moment I am sure to never forget!
Fugly Banzuke’s lil brother
Welcome to the site
Just wanted to extend a warm welcome to all of you to our family site. Here you will be able to see a photo journal of our coming days with our pride and joy little Aidan who will be a week old at 6:04 pm tomorrow. So sit back and enjoy the ride as we both add unusual updates.

















